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If this feels familiar…
Many men silently carry stress around intimacy: overthinking, pressure to “get it right,” or feeling disconnected from their bodies and pleasure. You might crave closeness, but something in your system tightens, checks out, or spirals into doubt.
This work helps you slow down, come back into your body, and build the kind of confidence that doesn’t rely on performance- just presence.
Aloha! I’m Lia.
I help men feel more confident and relaxed in their bodies so intimacy doesn’t feel confusing, pressured, or disconnected anymore. My approach is gentle, grounded, and very human: I meet you exactly where you are, without judgment or expectations.
Over the past decade, I’ve trained in somatic coaching, tantra, yoga psychology, psychedelic integration, addiction and recovery support, and embodiment-focused yoga. I understand how the body holds emotion, how patterns form, and what actually helps you relax into presence, confidence, and connection.
My coaching is warm, honest, and supportive. You get a space to speak openly about things you may have never said out loud: desire, anxiety, performance pressure, emotional blocks, or a feeling of disconnect from yourself.
What we work on together
Men work with me when they feel disconnected, anxious, confused, or stuck in their intimate lives. Together, we focus on helping you:
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Stop overthinking and stay present in your body
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Relax so pleasure feels natural, not pressured
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Express desire with more confidence
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Build emotional availability in a grounded, masculine way
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Shift out of anxious or needy patterns
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Understand what your body is doing during arousal and connection
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Feel confident in how you touch, communicate, and connect
Men who work with me often share...
They feel more confident in how they connect and touch.
They stop second-guessing themselves and trust their instincts.
They relax into pleasure instead of rushing or checking out.
They become more emotionally open in a steady, grounded way.
They stop apologizing for wanting closeness and intimacy.
They feel more secure, less needy, and more settled in themselves.
This is long-term, embodied change: the kind that touches every part of your intimate life.
Client Experiences
“Lia created a space where I could open up in ways I never thought I would. There was no pressure, no judgment- just genuine support. The combination of her breathwork, somatic guidance, and calming presence helped me release years of tension and shame I didn’t even realize I was carrying. I’m more relaxed in my body, more confident in intimacy, and much more connected to myself.”
~ Eric
“I didn’t expect online coaching to impact me this deeply. Lia has a way of guiding you gently into yourself- into honesty, presence, and emotional clarity. Every session felt safe and grounding. She helped me understand my patterns, release the pressure I’ve been carrying, and reconnect with confidence I thought I’d lost. This work has changed how I show up in every intimate moment of my life.”
~ Jerimaya
What Sessions Look Like
Each session is online, fully clothed, and tailored to what you’re experiencing that day. We start by clarifying your intention and what you want to explore.
Depending on your needs, I may guide you through:
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Guided breathwork
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Somatic grounding + embodiment practices
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Communication and connection skills
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Intimacy coaching (verbal guidance)
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Mindful arousal awareness
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Emotional expression work
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Presence training
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Guidance for mindful self-touch + regulation (you, not me)
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Optional microdosing support (education + integration)
The container is confidential, respectful, and deeply supportive: never sexual contact, but absolutely transformative.
Who I Work Best With
You’ll feel at home here if you are…
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Kind, curious, and self-aware
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Feeling anxious or unsure in intimacy
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Wanting more confidence with women
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Healing from shame or past experiences
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Disconnected from your body or pleasure
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Craving emotional closeness and connection
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Ready to feel grounded, present, and confident
If you’re craving softness, clarity, and a deeper relationship with your body and intimacy, you’ll feel supported here.
Rates & offerings
How to get started
Please complete the session request intake form. After reviewing, I’ll reach out with next steps and a link to book. Sessions are held on Zoom.
Intimacy isn't created alone
If something in your intimate life feels off: pressured, confusing, or disconnected, you deserve a space where you can slow down, breathe, feel, and learn with wholehearted support.
If you’re ready to feel more grounded, confident, and connected, I’d love to work with you.